My Winter Boots Were Falling Apart, but My Husband Refused to Replace Them, Saying, ‘I Control How My Money Is Used.’

When my boots fell apart during a harsh winter, I hoped my husband, Greg, would buy me new ones. Instead, he prioritized buying his mom a microwave. When I asked for boots, he refused, claiming it wasn’t necessary.

Frustrated, I decided to teach him a lesson. I wrapped my worn-out boots in the microwave box and gave them to his mom as her Christmas gift. Greg was furious, but I felt justified—his mom’s microwave mattered more to him than my safety.

Later, at her house, Greg was embarrassed after the family sided with me, and he finally apologized. A few days later, he gave me a new pair of boots—though I had already bought my own. We both learned valuable lessons about respect and priorities.

I also opened a separate bank account and started a side business, gaining a sense of independence while still being a stay-at-home mom. Greg supported my decision, and our relationship improved.